If you ask me what you can do to help,
and I tell you "Nothing, I'll take care of it,"
and you take it upon yourself to do whatever it is I told you I didn't want your help with,
Plain and simple.
At that point, you are not concerned with meeting my needs. Nope. You are concerned with meeting your own needs and making yourself feel better. At my expense. Do me a favor and stop pretending you are doing me any favors. Because all you are doing is making my life more difficult by getting in the way. When I want your help, I will ask for it. This isn't a pride issue, people....it's expecting common courtesy.